tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26358017.post5708186960222299120..comments2023-10-02T05:06:53.341-07:00Comments on The Mournful Cry of the Laundry: Well, That's a SurpriseNhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15536541033055051614noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26358017.post-38276274161666538022008-06-29T08:42:00.000-07:002008-06-29T08:42:00.000-07:00You have done what you could. That is all you can ...You have done what you could. That is all you can ask yourself.<BR/><BR/>I know how hard it is to go this route. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Every day I 2nd guess myself. Even though deep down I know "I did everything I could in the 8 yrs he was with us and/or 'in our family'.<BR/><BR/>Be firm w/the therapist and sw's. Set ground rules. You need to be rolling this ball...You need to be in charge (as much as you can). If they think you will keep hiim in hyour home for an extended amount of time for them to "find a family". They will take their sweet loving time. <BR/><BR/>(((HUGS)))<BR/><BR/>Take Care of you!!<BR/><BR/>GalaStory of our Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01617622682686871400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26358017.post-1335593241590590612008-06-27T19:50:00.000-07:002008-06-27T19:50:00.000-07:00You HAVE done everything you could. It's just that...You HAVE done everything you could. It's just that Max isn't fixable.<BR/>It's a shame that the foster care system lied to you about him.<BR/><BR/>This is not your fault.<BR/><BR/>I can't imagine how hard it is for you to give this up, I know you have done nothing for the past 18 months that didn't include planning for his needs.<BR/><BR/>You've done so much more than anyone else would have.Amihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08353667980806676067noreply@blogger.com